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S.I.N. | How A Man Can Overhaul His Sex drive
Written by Stephanie Tweito Jacob   
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We're all familiar with the stereotype that men want sex wherever and whenever they can get it. But the truth is that men can lose their sex drives just as readily as women can, says Dr. Karen Stewart, a psychologist based in Santa Monica who specializes in sexual dysfunction and couples' issues. "Men often experience a decrease in desire when they feel extreme stress such as a loss of income or work-related stress." The good news is there are plenty of easy lifestyle and relationship changes that both men and women can make to liven up their libidos. 
 
S.I.N. | Her Three Orgasm Trigger Points
Written by Daniel Rose   
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Have you ever wondered exactly where and how to touch a woman to trigger a powerful orgasm? If so, you’re in luck…because I’m going to talk to you about the three spots on her body which trigger powerful orgasms, and show you the key to giving her pleasure with each.

ORGASM TRIGGER POINT #1: THE CLITORIS

Most men know about the clitoris, but tend to be a little clumsy and inept when stimulating it. And it’s easy to see why: in most women the clitoris is smaller than a grain of rice, and it’s hidden within her vagina. What’s more, there literally hundreds of thousands of nerve endings in the clitoris, making it BY FAR the most sensitive spot of the female anatomy. And while there are spots on her body which produce more powerful orgasms, the clitoris is the easiest and most reliable way to make her orgasm.

 

The key to giving her orgasms with the clitoris is FINESSE. Remember, the clitoris is INCREDIBLY SENSITIVE, and a tiny, tiny difference in the way you’re stimulating her can be the difference between orgasms and pain for her. Rule of thumb when you’re giving her clitoral stimulation with your fingers, or through oral sex: start out incredibly SOFTLY, and gradually work your way up to harder and harder stimulation.

Most men make the mistake of having one single, constant speed at which they give her clitoral stimulation. The problem with this is that when she’s not yet very aroused, the clit is so super-sensitive that even a medium pressure of stimulation doesn’t feel good. You have to go VERY softly at first, and as she gets more aroused, use more and more pressure. When she’s approaching orgasm, this is when you can start to give her harder and more forceful clitoral stimulation. She can handle it when she’s this turned on, and it’s what’s going to drive her over the edge.

 

There are MANY different techniques that you can use with your fingers, tongue, or with a sex toy to give her a variety of unique orgasms through clitoral stimulation. My students favorite one in the Sex God Method seems to be the “Clitoral Circle Climax” technique. If you’d like to learn more about this and my other techniques, check out the book.

ORGASM TRIGGER POINT #2: THE G-SPOT

The g-spot is located on the frontal wall of her vagina, about two inches deep. You can tell you’re touching it because it feels slightly rougher than the rest of her vagina. Although it can be a little harder to give her orgasms with the g-spot than with the clitoris, the plus side is that the g-spot can produce some incredibly powerful, full-body shaking orgasms. It’s also the source of the visually spectacular female squirting orgasm. There are two keys to giving her orgasms with the g-spot:

First, when you’re using your fingers, you want to make her to stimulate her by inserting two fingers inside her vagina until you’re touching her g-spot, then making a “come here” motion with your fingers. Be sure that she’s turned on first, and that you don’t have rough fingernails which could be painful for her. When she’s turned on, she can enjoy surprisingly hard stimulation to her g-spot, In fact, it’ll be required towards to end to make her orgasm like this.

The second key to giving her orgasms with the g-spot is to use sex positions that stimulate the g-spot during intercourse. This is a surefire way to get her cumming like crazy from being penetrated. In the Sex God Method, I give the 3 best positions for g-spot sex and show you exactly how to make her cum with each. I can’t give you all three in this newsletter, but I will give you one that you can try tonight:

Lay her on her back, and penetrate her. Then, lean back so that she’s laying down and you’re upright, penetrating her at a 90 degree angle. Take her legs, and bend them up until both of them are against your chest. Hug both legs close to your chest with your arms. Then, start thrusting into her. This position provides some VERY intense g-spot stimulation, and can give her those intense full-body orgasms.

 

ORGASM TRIGGER POINT #3: THE A-SPOT

The A-spot is less well known than the g-spot and the clitoris, but it’s just as powerful as both of these. It’s located very deep inside her vagina, close to her cervix. While most women enjoy a-spot stimulation in the front of her vagina, there are some who enjoy a-spot stimulation to the back of her vagina as well. While the a-spot is the hardest of all three to access, it produces the MOST intense orgasms.

 

The key to giving her orgasms with the a-spot is that when you start to feel her vagina start to contract in orgasm, KEEP GIVING HER FIRM STIMULATION. To access her a-spot, you’re probably going to have to insert your fingers as deep into her vagina as possible (unless you have exceptionally long fingers.) Spread them slightly apart, and rub them firmly against the front of the a-spot.

When she’s about to have an orgasm you’ll feel the muscles in her vagina start to contract – it’ll feel like it’s about to snap your fingers off. BUT KEEP GOING when this happens, and she’ll have intense orgasms.

WARNING – NONE OF THESE “SPOTS” WORK UNLESS…

I’ve shown you the three most common “orgasm trigger points” on her body because I think it’s something every man needs to know to give women orgasms. But I have to warn you…just stimulating these “spots” alone will NOT make her crazy! Why is this?

-First of all, there are many other erogenous zones on her body which also need attention to arouse her enough for her “orgasm trigger points” to function. If you just dive straight to the vagina without paying attention to the other important points on her body, she’s not going to have any orgasms. There are actually 16 important erogenous zones that you need to know about to really access the potential of these orgasm trigger points.

-And second…as I’ve explained before, the PSYCHOLOGICAL aspect of sex is much more important than the PHYSICAL aspect of sex. You can give her perfect stimulation in all of these “spots,” but if you don’t know how to get her psychologically turned on then she won’t have any orgasms.

Think about it like this: what if a girl was giving YOU perfect physical stimulation by rubbing her vagina up and down on your penis, but she had terrible garlic breath which nauseated you? Would YOU be turned on, even with this perfect physical stimulation? This is a good analogy for how women feel about the performance of most men in bed. Even if you’re giving her great clitoral stimulation, and rubbing your fingers against her g-spot at exactly the right angle, and have located the a-spot with laser beam precision it all counts for NOTHING if you’re not turning her on psychologically. If you don’t know how to be the type of get she fantasizes about in bed, then your inability to arouse her on a psychological level hits her like a big whiff of garlic breathe in the face and totally kills her arousal.

And if you’ve ever tried some of these “physical stimulation” techniques which are purported to give women orgasms, but they haven’t worked for YOU, then THIS IS THE REASON WHY. But there’s a good side to this as well – if you know how to turn her on psychologically, you can be the man she fantasizes about and get her wet before you even start touching her. Combine this with solid physical stimulation techniques, and you have a recipe for incredibly powerful supercharged orgasms.

Once you can give women orgasms literally anytime you want, you’ll suddenly find that you have an incredible amount of sexual power over women. Your girlfriend or wife will be telling you that you are the best lover she’s ever had, and women will literally become sexually addicted to you because you can give them such intense pleasure.

Article Source: TSBmag.com

 

 
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Simple Steps to Seduce a Woman by ryand

Having trouble taking your date to the next level? Follow the steps below and enjoy higher success with women!

So you've done the hard part. You've been on a few dates, she seems interested in you, but you just don't know how to take it to the next level. These steps are ones which I personally use and have NEVER failed me out of the countless times I've used them!

Step 1 - The setting: Ok so I assume you've done the date to the bar/fairground/dinner etc. with her already, which means you can now invite her over to yours to watch a movie and have a glass of wine. I would not recommend doing this as a first date, because you'll come across as being after only one thing, which I hope is not what you're all about!

If you can subtly pick up what her favourite movie is, or something she would really like to see, then that's great (not needed but will make you look attentive and awesome!). If not, have several movies pre picked out, make sure it's you who decides what you watch (woman loves a decisive man).

Step 2 - Setting the mood: Start being playful with her; poke fun at her and be cocky. With the small effects of a glass of wine this will relax u both and also get you closer. Give her a little tickle, again this gets you closer, and gets the good endorphins going in her!

Step 3 - The seduction: You objective now should be to give her a massage; I won't get into the biological reasons why, but just know that this gets her 'in the mood'. As you should have been poking fun and being cocky with her, perhaps when she's pouting, say something along the lines of "awww, is little [insert girls name here] all upset?" in a sarcastic tone of voice, then offer to give her a back rub to make it up to her.
With her sitting in front of you, watching the movie, begin to massage her shoulders initially, around the area between the base of her neck and where the actual should blades begin. After a while start to spread your massage out, but always returning to the initial part of the shoulders e.g. rub your hands slowly down her arms then back up again. Alternatively, if your hands are getting tired, you could rub your hands down her arms and finish by wrapping them around her and cuddle her; watch a bit of the movie then return to massaging her back again.
Continue doing this for 15-20 minutes, before starting to rub your fingers gently over her neck, just under her ears. If everything is going well, she should respond with a "mmm" or similar 'that feels really good' noise.

Step 4 - Sealing the deal: With your hands rubbing her neck move one of your hands around and cup her face turning it towards your own and begin to kiss her. I will always make sure I cup a woman's face with my hand/hands when kissing her as it adds that something special to a kiss.

So there it is, you have just seduced your girl, the rest is up to you. Slowly lay her down, whilst kissing her neck or play it a little more dominant; I will leave that up to you as!

Hope you gained some knowledge from my article. Good luck!

Ryan

More information and tips can be found on my blog. Also check out my post on how to attract women.

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When it comes to sexual arousal, a woman's mind and body are less in sync than a man's, a review of research finds.

Men who reported feeling turned on tended to also sport an erection, while a matchup between the mind and body wasn't so consistent for women, according to the review published online Jan. 4 in the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior.

"We wanted to discover how closely people's subjective experience of sexual arousal mirrors their physiological genital response — and whether this differs between men and women," said researcher Meredith Chivers, a psychology professor at Queen's University in Canada.

Chivers and colleagues reviewed more than 130 studies published between 1969 and 2007 involving participants' arousal responses. In total, the review included more than 2,500 women and 1,900 men.

Men's subjective ratings of arousal were in agreement with their body's level of sexual arousal about 66 percent of the time, while women's were in line only about 26 percent of the time.

"The general pattern that I have seen in my laboratory is that women experience a genital response but do not report feeling sexually aroused," Chivers told LiveScience.

Overall, the findings suggest women and men have different experiences of sexual arousal.

"For men, their experience is strongly related to physiological arousal whereas for women it is less so," Chivers said.

Supporting the conclusions, a study reported in 2003 showed men's arousal clearly tracks sexual orientation, with gay men getting turned on by images of men, and straight guys by images of women. In contrast, that 2003 study showed both heterosexual and lesbian women were sexually aroused by male and female erotica, regardless of their sexual orientation.

Figuring out how measures of arousal (mental vs. physiological) differ between men and women will help scientists study human sexuality and understand the nature of these differences, Chivers said. 

 

Source: LiveScience 

 
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The 10 facts of female sexuality

Author: Jane Thomas

Beliefs about female sexuality are more often based on fantasy than facts. These are the 10 essential facts that every woman (if she is interested in sharing her own sexual arousal and orgasm with a partner) should know:

(1) Enjoying orgasm through genital stimulation

Anyone, male or female, alone or with a partner, uses genital stimulation to take a mental state of sexual arousal (achieved by appreciating eroticism) to orgasm.

(2) The role of psychological sexual arousal

During masturbation men use erotic images (usually the naked body and sexual attributes of a sexual partner) and women use erotic scenarios (usually stories with a complex psychological context) for psychological sexual arousal.

(3) The role of genital stimulation

During masturbation men stimulate their penis, women stimulate their clitoris (the female sex organ) BUT genital stimulation only leads to orgasm once a person is mentally aroused. So clitoral stimulation does not by itself guarantee orgasm.

For example, even during female masturbation clitoral stimulation leads to orgasm ONLY when it is combined with the use of sexual fantasies.

(4) Fantasies can be difficult to use with a partner

Men’s arousal mechanism of erotic images transfers fairly naturally from masturbation (pornography) to sex (the body of a real-life sexual partner). Women’s fantasies do not transfer nearly as easily. Some women find that mind-based fantasies are incompatible with sex.

(5) Clitoral stimulation can be less effective during sex

Men approach sex with a desire to stimulate their penis (via intercourse or other means) because they are already aroused. A woman’s challenge is to discover how to achieve sufficient sexual arousal during sex for clitoral stimulation to be effective.

 
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